Musings about early retirement with no fixed address

A Random Day Off

As someone who loves to travel, I have always cherished each and every vacation day.  I view them as precious gifts. They are definitely not to be wasted, misused, or arbitrarily cashed in.  Using one at home means that I can’t stay that extra day in France or Mexico or Vietnam. As such, I can’t remember the last time I burned a vacation day that wasn’t connected with a trip.  But considering that I will have no use for these in the very near future, I broke my rule the other day. For the first time in at least a decade, I took a random weekday off for no real reason.  And it was glorious.

A nice view at Castle Rock SP

There’s a hiking trail in the nearby Santa Cruz mountains that is one of my favorites, but unfortunately I’m not the only one who feels that way.  On the weekends, it’s always so crowded that we have no choice except to bypass it for somewhere else because it’s impossible to find parking at the trailhead.  If I did want to make it my mission to get to Castle Rock State Park on a Saturday or Sunday, I’d have to leave my apartment by 8am in order to secure a parking spot. This could be part of getting old, but by the time the weekend rolls around, I’m nearly always exhausted. The work week never fails to wear me down. So even though I like to hike, and this is a great trail, it’s just not appealing to set an alarm to get there.

These Manzanita shrubs are my favorite. That copper bark is completely smooth.

Due to the overwhelming demand at this park on weekends, even if I did drag my ass out of bed way too early, I’d be sharing the trail with dozens of other hikers. Katie and I have hiked there on Christmas day before, and even then it’s still crowded.  But on this random weekday, not only were we able to get a primo spot at 11:30am, I was shocked to find that there were only 3 other cars in the parking lot. Which of course means that we barely saw any other hikers on the trial. Being alone nearly the whole time made this hike even better than I thought it could be, despite already being one of my favorites.  The sweeping views of the mountains and Monterey bay were even better with some extra solitude.

Monterey Bay in the distance and a complete lack of other people

As I was traversing that path, I had a realization that this must be what it feels like to be retired.  It’s having the freedom to go hiking on a weekday afternoon. Or go to the store at 10am while everyone else is off working.  I’ve long been looking forward to off-peak life, but it’s rare that I actually get to experience it. Usually I just dream about it.  While I have weekdays off when we travel, I don’t really count that because the feeling is different. It’s more hurried. We only have so much time before we leave so we try to fill it.  We eat out more. We stop at every museum. We have a general plan for each day. But this random day off had that distinct off-peak feeling to it. It felt like a preview of what’s upcoming.  

Away from the ridge, the inland trail is filled with mossy rocks and trees

Without needing to stockpile vacation days, our schedule will soon be wide open.  We’ll be able to stay put on busy holidays and move when everyone else is back to the grind.  Dealing with rush hour will become a relic of the past. We can hit up the local market on Thursday afternoon and have time to talk to the vendors. There will be ample time to sit in a park and watch the local wildlife or just read a book. Soon we’ll be able to adopt a slower pace that allows time to linger, something that’s exceedingly rare at the moment.

Looking like a couple of (almost) retirees

I’ve been thinking about this next life in terms of the future for so long that it’s hard for me to accept the realization that it’s almost here.  I can watch the countdown clock in the sidebar that says I have only a little over 2 months of work left, but it’s still completely surreal. My mind mostly refuses to acknowledge that this is the reality and it’s happening soon.  It’s simply hard to process such a major life change. But for a few weekday hours out on the trail, I was there. I made it. I was in the moment, feeling that retirement flow, and ready to get started.

Do you take random days off? Or are you a vacation day hoarder? If you’re already retired, what’s your favorite part of off-peak life? Comment below.

8 Comments

  1. Glenda Lehman

    Great thought provoking comments Eric. I had to ponder about my retirement and my happy place. I can honestly say I love my flowers and gardens and creative interesting art. I love oceans and mountains and nature type adventure. A little heathier and younger would have found me on trails, hiking, or something requiring some physical exercise. Complex Unique Architecture is another interest. I love viewing old buildings and learning about the history. Grandchildren time is sacred. I wouldn’t miss an event they were a part of if possible. Helping them to understand a perfect plan and purpose is my goal. Just encouraging others and making their days better is my happy place. Time is still sacred.

    • Eric

      Katie and I enjoy much of that too. We seek out parks and botanical gardens, architecture, and love walking around cities looking for interesting things. Definitely looking forward to finding my happy place.

  2. Janie Peugeot

    Uncle Duane says, “A word of caution: time will go by a lot faster because you’re enjoying life so much more.”
    We always called those days “free days” . Days without a schedule are a gift!!
    One thing we enjoy almost every day now is the time to sit down & have coffee together in the morning. Little gifts..
    We’re enjoying your blog.
    Love, Uncle Duane & Aunt Janie

    • Eric

      The slow mornings are definitely a nice thing. We are looking forward to those. And tons of free days too, which are of course a rare commodity at the moment.

  3. Aunt Button

    Eric,
    You definitely made me smile today when I read your insight into what it’s like to be retired. BINGO! You hit the bullseye.
    My favorite part of retirement are the slow easy mornings that allow me to enjoy the most mundane things like feeding the dogs breakfast and watching their excitement as they watch me at work. Making morning coffee for Len and myself. Planning our day together. Errands we’ll run or maybe a day trip we’ve planned. The magic comes from the fact that nothing has to be rushed.
    It’s a quiet, soothing and a gentle way to begin each day. For us this is the best. We just celebrated our 52nd anniversary and I love each and every day we have together. Len remains my best friend as well as my loving husband.
    I can tell when I look at your picture together you are also best friends. As long as you can keep that aspect of your relationship alive and nourished the number of years that pass won’t matter at all. That energy never changes.
    I’m sure I’ve rattled on too long and sound a bit like a crazy old aunt.

    Big hug!

    • Eric

      52 years! That’s amazing. We’re nearly at 15, so we’ll have a lot more slow mornings to go. 😀

  4. Julie Evans

    You nailed the best part of retirement-time! Time to have another cup of coffee, time to be thoughtful about purchases, time to spend with people I hold dear. You are so wise to take advantage of all retirement has to offer at such a young age!

    • Eric

      Thanks Julie. One of the main factors pushing us towards this goal was being able to control our time. You only get so much, so it seems a pity to waste a beautiful day in some office building. 😀

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